Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Why He Wit Her?

I swear if I hear about another black woman getting upset at the fact that some dude that she doesn't even know,or would ever date, fuck, talk to, etc. Gets mad when she sees that he is black and he is with a white woman. Why do you even care? What makes you so upset? Is it because you think white women are prettier than black women? Because if that is the case, then you clearly haven't left your hood and you need to stop watching T.V.

Black women this shouldn't even be a discussion, you need to worry about you and not compare yourself to anyone and stop having LOW SELF ESTEEM.

Stop giving other races a one up on you, be who you are. Weave is fine, but you know when you are overdoing it, Beyonce looks like an idiot so stop copying her....like please.

I feel like many black women expect sooo much out of black men, but a lot of the times don't like to meet them halfway. These crazy unrealistic expectations which come from feeling like you are owed something, due to slavery, injustice, and blah blah blah. Are out of this world and are unfair at times. I'm not saying that other races have low expectations but I'm not worried about other races because I'm black, so I can only speak on what I've noticed in my life, friends lives, and media.

So if you are one of those black women, who gets an Ace Ventura face when she sees a black dude with a white girl, then you need to check yourself or how bout this MIND YOUR GOTDAMN BUSINESS.. Ain't nobody thinking about your sad bitter ass. Get over it and find someone for you,and stop fucking worrying about Becky and Travon...

3 comments:

Zerina Akers said...

I'm curious to hear what you consider Unrealistic Expectations.

egad apparel said...

Shake the haters off...

jeanette said...

Women of color feel betrayed when they seen the white woman and the man of color together because for so long the white man kept his "precious" white woman on a pedestal, while secretly (and not so secretly) lusting after (and raping) the woman of color.

Whilst the white man strayed, his white woman yearned for the forbidden fruit of the man of color. The man who loved his brown woman; that her man lusted after & violated, would face CERTAIN DEATH or MUTILATION if he even raised an eyebrow toward the woman on the pedestal.

It became a sadistic game of entrapment, that because status quo through the ages.

Now...though our bodies are not chained and repercussions not as harsh the same delusions plague our intent.


In my opinion this is where the controversy stems. When we (amerikkkan society) have to question the truth behind the relationship.

Why are you really together?

Ironically enough, that question lingers behind each and every relationship that exists.

In the words of Jay Electronica..."I ain't glad at em, but I ain't mad at em..."